Monday, January 18, 2010

(Kade's lovely turban of wires covered by gauze that he wore in the hospital for his EEG)

My last post on Kade left out quite a few details...while the kids are napping I'll try to fill in some of the gaps!

Last July (2009) was when Kade had his first seizures. He had 5 in 3 days, and we were in the hospital where an MRI was done and an EEG (a couple of hours long). The MRI was clear, the EEG showed abnormal activity on left frontal lobe. We met with a neurologist there, who became Kade's neuro for the next few months, who prescribed Keppra. That worked great for a few months, we didn't see any seizures. The ones he had in July were tonic clonic, the kind you picture when you hear seizure. Stiff, shaking, etc. Then in November we noticed he had two different kinds of seizures. Very short, 5-10 seconds. It was as if he would zone out, we'd call his name and he wouldn't look at us...then he'd snap out of it. He also was doing these little body jerks. After we told his doctor about these strange behaviors we learned the zone-outs were called Absence Seizures and the jerks were Myoclonic Seizures. Myoclonic seizures are bad for cognitive development so he doubled Kade's Keppra and told us to give it two weeks. It worked at first, but after 13 days they were back, and more frequent than other. Other medication was added, but things continued to worsen. And that brings us to my last post, where he began having seizures almost every minute.

His first 24 hours at Phoenix Children's Hospital was pretty rough. The IV team tried four times (both hands, both feet) to put in an IV which resulted in four blown veins. That equals lots of blood, a traumatized three year old, and an exhausted mom and dad who were trying to hold him still while comfort him at the same time. He did earn a Nerf Gun in the process though, which was a lifesaver in those coming days! The staff was great, in the six days we were there he was given the gun, about 10 stuffed animals, Buzz Lightyear, a book, Mr. Potato Head, and a few other toys I am forgetting. He made out better than at Christmas :o)

After the EEG was hooked up we learned that he would be on it at least 24 hours (turned out to be 6 days). The room has a video camera in it, and a nurse is constantly watching him on a video at her station to detect seizures. We were given a button to push when we suspected a seizure, so they could look at the time we pushed it and the activity on the EEG. There was also a sensitive microphone in the room, so for 6 days our every action and word was recorded and observed....yikes!! He was not allowed to watch TV or Movies because it's hard to detect his Absence seizures if he's staring at a TV. At night we had to sleep with the lights on so they could watch him on their screen (luckily near the end they let us turn a couple of them off). He couldn't have his blanket, which he is VERY attached to, because they didn't want anything covering his body when he slept so they could see what he looks like when he seizes. Not fun!!

The first night also was fun when he threw up four times. I guess that is one perk to having the lights on, I didn't trip on anything as I grabbed the vomit bucket and ran to him. For some reason he would go crazy each time he threw up, 3 out of four times grabbing the bowl and dumping the vomit all over him, the bed, and me. I felt bad for the nurse and CNA on that shift, they had a fun time changing sheets and cleaning our room all night. Luckily I had brought several sets of clothing. It was the flu, we found out the next day that both his brothers were sick at home that night as well.

As I said before the next two days were hard, filled with lots of seizures and medications not helping. Things were getting very serious and we were worried he was going to go into a long seizure which can result in brain damage. The doctor was talking about what the next step was, either giving him steroids to stop the seizures or putting him on a Ketogenic Diet, which can be effective for many children who don't respond to medications. The Ketogenic Diet is a high-fat, low carbohydrate diet. It may still be in our future, but is very hard to stick to, especially with other children in the home.

It's funny how your perspective changes so quickly. In July when this all started, as hard as it was we were hopeful that in a few years he would outgrow it, and the only side effects of Keppra were impulsive behavior and irritability. We were desperate to avoid the stronger seizure medications that can cause liver and pancreas damage. However, in the hospital everything changed and we were forced to look at the big picture and trust in doctors to use the strongest medications in order to bring our Kade out of that horrible condition he was in. Now he is on two medications, which so far have been working very well. He has only had one seizure in the 7 days we have been home. We were told it would either slightly sedate him, or cause him to be hyper and irritable. He is hyper and irritable....which is difficult to deal with at times, but manageable. I hope it fades a bit with time as his body becomes more adjusted to the medication. For some reason the medication is not in liquid form as the Keppra was, so we have to crush the pills and give it to him twice a day in food. It tastes gross, so two times a day we have to pin him down and basically force him to eat it.

As I wrap this up, I fear it sounds very negative. I don't mean it to be, but it is what it is and although it is hard we will push through and hopefully make this as easy as possible for Kade. We'll meet in a week with his neuro and schedule the 24 EEG and MRI, and hopefully he will be pleased with his progress and the tests will give us more good news.

We do not know what is causing these seizures, he has been given the broad diagnoses of Idopathic (unknown cause) Epilepsy (2 or more unexplained seizures). He in some ways has traits similar to those with Doose Syndrome (Myoclonic-Asatic Epilepsy), but his doctor is not ready to give him that diagnoses.

http://www.doosesyndrome.com/index.html

Once again, thank you so much for all the support. A big thanks to: Shannen for a yummy meal, the Serros Family for several meals dropped at our doorstep, Lesli sending balloons and a monkey in the hospital, the Steere's for balloons, Cody's mother for flying down to help, Becca, Shelby, and Jennie for watching my boys and fun presents for Kade (poor Jennie watched Rhett for me when he first had the flu and he threw up 3 times at her house), my sister Brittany for coming to my house very early in the morning for several days to get my kids off to school and watch them when they had the flu, Dustin and April for helping with the older boys, Kaija and family for the sweet cards and stuffed animal, Mark and Laraine for visiting, Suzi for letting me shower at your house, all ward and family members who fasted for Kade, and thank you thank you to all other friends and family for the sweet texts, e-mails, calls, and offers of love and support!!

Sunday, January 17, 2010

{Kade}

Hello everyone! It's been a long time since I updated this blog....I am way behind. As many of you know, Kade's seizures were increasing in December. His doctor doubled his medication, and when that didn't work, added a new one. At our last appointment with him, he said they would schedule an EEG within the next few days for him. Cody and left the appointment just feeling uneasy, as if he wasn't as concerned about Kade's high level of seizures as we were.

The next day, Kade's seizures worsened. He woke up Tuesday the 5th and was having seizures every minute (they would last about 5-10 seconds). After this went on for an hour, I called my uncle Jeff at 7:30am. The day before he had recommended a friend of his who is a neurological surgeon at Phoenix Children's Hospital. I called Jeff asking him if he would call his friend and tell him Kade's situation, so we would know what to do. Dr. Manwearing called us back, found out Kade's history and what was currently happening, then told us to come to Phoenix Children's. He said he was going to meet with a team of neurological doctors and eptologists who would get a plan together as to how to treat Kade.

When we arrived they hooked Kade up to a video EEG (electrodes glued to his head which record location and magnitude of brain activity), and he stayed hooked up on the EEG for all 6 days we were at the hospital. The first three days were very scary. Different combinations and levels of various seizure medications were used, and nothing was working. Finally on Friday we had a break through and his seizures were greatly reduced. The first three days he was having over one hundred a day that we could see, and hundreds more that are called electrographical seizures, unseen by the eye but recorded on the EEG. By the time we left on Sunday he was not having any seizures, but still was having too many of the electrographical seizures. We are hoping that in these next few weeks or days, the two medications he is on now will help reduce those further. He'll have a 24 hour EEG done soon to see if that's the case, and also an MRI.

Although this was one of the most frightening and heartbreaking times we have experienced, the good that has come of it is that now Kade's care will be provided by an amazing neurologist and eptologist. Dr. Buchhalter founded the Epilepsy unit at the hospital 3 years ago when we came from Mayo Clinic. He's the Chief Neurologist and we feel so confident in his expertise and passion to help children with epilepsy.

Thank you so much for all of your love and support. We have been home a week now, and have only seen one seizure, so things are loooking good. We are hopeful that his current medications will control his seizures and he can continue being the lovable, energetic, and inquisitive 3 year old that he is!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

{Scouts}



For the past year I have been the Primary 2nd Counselor so I have learned a lot about the scouting program and why it is so important. Now that Rhett is 8, and gets to go each week, I have an even better perspective of why it is so great! Tuesday is his favorite night, whether his pack is picking up garbage or going on a bike ride he comes home with a big smile and tells us all about it. A couple of months ago he earned his first badge, the "Bobcat". At pack meeting I painted his face and he was turned upside down by Cody as I pinned the badge on him (wrong side up). He was able to put it on the right way after doing a good deed for me at home. Ethan of course is so jealous but his time will come :o)

Monday, December 28, 2009

{Grandma Ila Ashton}



On December 8th, Cody's Grandma Ila passed away. We knew this day was coming, as her health has been deteriorating and she has told us many times she was ready to return to be with her husband after being separated for many years. We will miss so many things about her, when you loose one you love it seems that life will never be the same without them. Although she is Cody's Grandmother, she took me under her wing as well and I feel so close to her as well. She is the definition of "spunky" and full of life! When we were first married I loved to hear her stories from the past, as well as her busy social schedule filled with friends, family, church, and lots of activities such as water aerobics.

She shared her testimony often (to us and to her ward every Fast Sunday) and family was so important to her. She kept a schedule of all her posterity, and wrote several letters weekly as well as made many phone calls to catch up on all the latest news. I will treasure those letters, there is something so much more personal about a letter you receive in the mail as opposed to an e-mail.

Cody and I were able to make a quick 2-day trip to Utah and Wyoming for her funeral, we flew up Sunday to Salt Lake, rented a car, and drove to Lyman where services were held. All but one of Cody's siblings were there (Lesli was having a baby on Monday!) and we had a nice time telling stories and memories we all had of Grandma Ashton. Below is a picture of her house in Lyman, Cody's Grandma and Grandpa Bluemel, Cody's cousin Lindsay and I, and Cody's home her grew up in, in Lyman.




There was a lot of extended family there, and a lot of people who loved Grandma Ashton. The funeral was wonderful, and I was able to accompany Mona as she sang one of Grandma's favorite songs: Where Love Is.




The Gene Ashton Family




Ila's children and their spouses




The Grandchildren and their spouses (there are 26 living grandchildren)




Great-grandchildren (she has 83!)

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

{High School Reunion}



A few weeks ago Cody and I went to my 11 year High School Reunion (they didn't do one last year). I was a bit nervous to go since I really haven't kept in touch with too many people from high school. The reunion included two classes, and I come from a large school so I didn't know how many people I would recognize.....

The answer to that was not too many! I was surprised to see how much some people have changed, and then others looked just the same. I had a great time eating and hanging out with my sweet friends, Waterworld Chicas :o) We all worked together in the summers at Waterworld and had so many crazy and fun experiences together. Now we are all married, some of us have children, one of us is a doctor, and we all have grown a lot. It was great to be back together. It was a fun night and I wish I had taken more pictures!!

Sunday, November 8, 2009

{Halloween}

October has come and gone....it was a busy and fun month filled with lots of parties, pumpkins, costumes, and treats! The boys enjoyed picking out a pumpkin and pulling all the slimy seeds out.



Cody worked hard finding a jack-o-lantern pattern online, and printed and cut it out. He wasn't thrilled when I told him that they boys should be able to draw with markers on the pumpkin and then he should cut out their design..... ;o)



Mr. Pumpkin turned out to have three eyes, a carrot shaped nose, and an interesting mouth but it looked great when he was carved and had candles glowing inside.

This year Rhett has been talking for months about being The Emperor from Star Wars. I will admit, I tried to discourage him because it was a difficult costume to find and so freaky looking!! His heart was set on it, and so we ordered the mask online and found a black costume to wear and he was set. Ethan wanted to be a vampire, and Kade picked out a lion costume that looked so cute.




This was the first year we stayed home and went trick-or-treating in our neighborhood, and the boys lasted a long time. Rhett and Ethan even went through the haunted house of a ward member. It was a fun month, now it's on to Thanksgiving and Christmas!

{Soccer Stars!}



Rhett and Ethan had a fun soccer season full of many evening practices and Saturday games. They both improved a lot and had a great time playing and making new friends. Rhett especially enjoyed playing on the same team as his cousin Mason. Now we are on to baseball and t-ball....busy, busy but I wouldn't have it any other way! It's fun being outside together and enjoying the fabulous weather we earned by the HOT summer!